Commitment vs. Looking
Commitment is about staying on one side, regardless of where the greener side is.
I read somewhere that guys tend to have a commitment issue. And somewhere else, I read that some guys do not like to commit, in case they find someone better. I think that’s just bull. If you really love somebody, commitment should, no, in fact, would not be a problem.
Someone better? What does that mean? The greener side? That’s just subjective. Imagine if you were colour blind (or blind in fact), how can the grass be greener? Why not appreciate at what you have?
Look at how beautiful she is in her own way, what makes your heart flutter, what you fell in love with in the first place. When you do, commitment comes naturally, and the greener pastures no longer matter because you stop looking.
Of course, a problem with commitment because of another reason is a different thing, and requires a different post altogether. But you get my drift. I hope.
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